There are so many people that are better before they are truly known. I once hear that "One should never have a hero younger than themselves or they will be disappointed in who they find them to be". We also must see that all people are human and are prone to mistakes and error.
Others are simply not ready for the public. Their lives have caused them to be too scared of everything; they are unable to see life as happy and free. When someone real does come into their lives they feel compelled to pick the relationship apart and see all the reasons they will not be able to find happiness in it. Many times they push away the best option for an option they feel they fit better into instead of the avenue that would be of the best benefit for them. Some of us may not be able to see why these choices are made; but most of us have not seen the major set backs and personal pains that these people have. Their lives have been filled with too much misery for them to know true happiness. They have created a shell around themselves to only accept what they feel safe and comfortable accepting. The shell only allows so much happiness before it rejects the conduit brining the pleasurable experience and sometimes we will see them reject those who intend the most good.
No amount of regular experience seems to change this thought form and process. It will usually take many years of therapy and counseling to unlock the ability of these people to find their true ability to find happiness. Sadly, much of their life has already passed and the bills from the therapy have caused them to have too little materially for them to actively search for their new found ably to be completely happy. Plus, they have often already rejected several who wanted to make them happy and had the ability to do so. They also will not return because those people did take the initiative to seek new happiness and good experiences.
Which do you choose to be?
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